Ngokomyeni wakhe, uMelania "wayenosana oluyi-ankile" kwaye wasebenzisa "ukufuduka kwekhonkco" ukufumana ubumi baseMelika kubazali bakhe.
Enye yezona nkcukacha zikholisayo zomyalelo wokubanjwa kwamva nje kukuba uMelania Trump akazange achukunyiswe kukunganyaniseki komyeni wakhe, okanye angakhathali kuhlaselo lwakhe ngokwesondo.“Nguye,” watsho ngokungakhathali."Ndiyazi ukuba nditshate nabani."
UMelania ebesoloko ekuqonda kakuhle konke malunga noDonald Trump-hayi nje ukuzulazula kwakhe okulandelelanayo, kodwa kunye nokuxhaphaza kwakhe ngokwesondo, ubuxoki be-pathological, kunye nobuhlanga obukhohlakeleyo-ukuze aveze ububi kule minyaka mine idlulileyo.Umfanekiso weFLOTUS ukhutshelwe iintsholongwane ngabahlobo.Nangona kukho bonke ubungqina obuchaseneyo, oku kusekho ukucocwa, kwaye uyavelana noMichelle Obama, onyamezela ubuhlanga obungenalusini, obunetyhefu kunye nobuhlanga.Noko ke, kwanokuba uMelania ugxininisa kubugorha obunogonyamelo bokuba abamhlophe ukongama, usafuna ukugqalwa njengowenzakeleyo, ezibiza ngokuba “ngoyena mntu ungcungcuthekiswayo ehlabathini.”Uninzi lwexhoba lokufunda ngokuzifihla luluncedo kuye.Imbali yaseUnited States izele ziiMelanias.Ubulungisa bala mabhinqa bugqalwa bumsulwa kwaye buntsonkothile, kwaye busoloko bukhuselwa ngogonyamelo.
Nangona i-FLOTUS iqinisekisile ubume bentengiselwano yomtshato, ukusayinwa kwentsebenzo yakhe yangoku akukuphela nje ngenxa yomvuzo ophezulu.Ephendula umbuzo wokuba angatshata na uTrump okanye hayi ngo-2005, wazilwela wathi: "Ukuba andimhle, ucinga ukuba uzakuba nam?"Ngokuchasene noko, njengoko incwadi yamva nje isitsho Njengoko kubonisiwe, uMelania akazange abe ngumntu obukeleyo, ixhoba elingenakuzinceda okanye umntu othe cwaka malunga ne-ajenda yomyeni wakhe (ubumsulwa buhlala bunikwa abafazi abamhlophe), kodwa ukubandakanyeka okunomdla nokuvumayo.Ngamanye amazwi, le FLOTUS ayikho nje inkosikazi yendebe okanye isincedisi esilungileyo;ungumdibanisi, uyasebenzisana, kunye nesincedisi.
Ngokucacileyo, imfundo yakhe yangaphambi kokubeleka yamenza-umphambukeli ozelwe kwelinye ilizwe onesimo esingahambelaniyo sokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe kwaye ebonakala enesibindi esimhlophe esiphakamileyo-acele ukufunda iphepha likaBarack Obama.Waba nenxaxheba kobu buvuvu bobuhlanga yaye wayeyiqonda ngokupheleleyo into yokuba wayesenza umsebenzi ongekho mthethweni eUnited States ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi, nto leyo eyamenza waba ngumphambukeli ongenamaphepha asemthethweni awayeqhele ukuseshwa ngumyeni wakhe.Eyakhe ithisisi, okanye ukungabikho kwethisisi, kuya kungqina ukuba uxoke iminyaka emininzi kamva, kuba waphumelela kwiYunivesithi yaseLjubljana eSlovenia kwaye akazange aphumelele kunyaka wakhe omtsha.Endaweni yoko, uye waseka inqanaba eliphakathi kwakhona, kwanoDonald's.Imali ayinakuyenza.Uzibandakanye nomsebenzi we-supermodel, kodwa wamnika "ikhadi le-Einstein Green" elingafanelekanga, elidla ngokunikwa "abantu abaphumelele indumiso yasekhaya neyamazwe ngamazwe."Ngokutsho komyeni wakhe, wayene "anchor baby" ngo-2005. Ngo-2018, wafumana ubumi babazali bakhe "nge-chain immigration";wasebenzisa indlela efanayo ukuze afumanele udade wabo indawo yokuhlala ngokusisigxina.
Ubuxoki be-bohemian bukaMelania bubonisa ukuba umazi kakuhle umyeni wakhe ngenxa yokuba bayafana-abanomdla, abaziqinisayo iifolklorists basasaza ubuxoki ngalo lonke ixesha imilebe yabo ishukuma.Nangona uMelania esithi uthetha iilwimi ezintandathu, baninzi abantu abathetha iilwimi zomthonyama kumzila wakhe besithi zange weva ukuba usebenzisa enye into ngaphandle kwesiNgesi okanye isiSlovenia.Iingxelo zithi, ukwaxoke ngeminyaka yakhe kwaye wenza utyando lokuthambisa.
Xa umyeni wakhe wayeqhayisa ngolwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo kwifilimu iAccess Hollywood, wathi uDonald (owayeneminyaka engama-59 ngoko) wayeba “nencoko yamakhwenkwe.”Wathabatha inyathelo eliqhelekileyo lokutyhola ixhoba.Ukuphendula intaphane yabasetyhini ekutyholwa ukuba baxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, bexhatshazwa yaye bebethwa ngabayeni bawo, batyholwa ngokubuza ukuba ngaba ukho umntu “wakha wajonga imvelaphi yala mabhinqa?
Kwi-MeToo, wasebenzisa iqonga elibanzi egameni likaBrett Kavanaugh ukuxelela amaxhoba oxhatshazo ngokwesondo ngokungangqalanga: “Awunakutsho nje emntwini ukuthi, ‘Ndixhatshazwe ngokwesondo… Ufuna ubungqina obubambekayo.Emva kokuba ekhunjulwe, uNatasha Stoynoff, umbhali weMagazini yaBantu ngelo xesha (uTrump wakha wathi uTrump wamtyhalela eludongeni kwaye “walutyhala ngolwimi lwakhe (emqaleni)”) wakhumbula, Emva kokudibana okungathandekiyo kunye nokungaqhelekanga noMelania eNew. IsiXeko sase-York, walichaza eli bali njengelicetyelwe ukuba lintombazana waza wathi: “Andizange ndibe ngumhlobo wakhe.Andizumazi.Xa intatheli yamaYuda uJulia Ioffe watyhila ukuba utata kaMelania wayenomntwana oyimfihlo, kwaye wagxekwa ngabantu abachasene namaSemite, uMelania wathi akanalo “ulawulo” lwabalandeli bam, kwaye u-Ioffe “uyabacaphukisa.”
Emva koko wabonakala ethe phithi nguMichelle Obama, inenekazi lokuqala elimnyama lokuqala.Ngokweengxelo, uMelania akazange afune ukusebenzisa izindlu zangasese kunye neeshawa ezifana no-Obama, kodwa emva koko weba ngendlela yokuba icala lezi ntetho lijongele phantsi isicwangciso sobunganga abamhlophe ngokwaso.UMelania uxhasa ukuthambekela kwenkcubeko yelizwe awamkeleyo, oko kukuthi imibono, umsebenzi kunye neetalente zabasetyhini abamnyama ngokunyelisa.Ubize umbutho wakhe ochasene nenethiwekhi "indoda eyatshata neyona nkosi inkulu emhlabeni" "Yiba Nguye Ogqwesileyo", nto leyo ehlekisayo, ibangele umbhali waseNew Yorker uRebecca Mead athi, "Kwanesaci kuzama ukuba "ngcono" ibala lokudlala.Oku kukwamkelwa kukaMichelle Obama eOstriya.Isiqubulo esadluliselwa ngu-Oprah Winfrey kubaphulaphuli abanomdla ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe.Nokuba “Ngaba ngokwenene andikhathali?”Ngokweengxelo, ibhatyi yindlela yokufumana iindaba kwaye inokumnceda ukuba adlule umanduleli wakhe.Ngaba uMichelle Obama ufikelele kumda?Zange ayenze loo nto.”“Ndibonise imifanekiso!”
kukho ezinye.Kanye njengokuba uMelania wayenxibe kakhulu i-Out of Africa to Africa, wayenxibe i-helmet yomongo kunye neebhutsi ze-safari, ebonisa ingqalelo yakhe kwiinkcukacha zefashoni yamakholoni amhlophe.(“Kufana nokuya kwintlanganiso yamafama omqhaphu ase-Afrika naseMelika enxibe iyunifomu yomanyano,” watsho uMatthew Carotenuto, umbhali-mbali weYunivesithi yaseSt. iinyanga ezintandathu ukuze athethe ngokutsha ngenkathalo yakhe yangaphambi komtshato, aqokelele i-US$676,000 kwiindleko zenqwelo-moya, kunye neendleko zokhuseleko lwemihla ngemihla phakathi kwe-US$127,000 ne-146 000 yeedola, zonke ezo zazihlawulwa ngabahlawuli berhafu.Lo ngukumkanikazi wentlalontle. kunye engasebenziyo "best" intshukumo-Fyi, leyo ekuqaleni weba amaxwebhu Obama-era Federal Trade Commission, kodwa uMelania wathi molo igama lakhe-xa umyeni wakhe wathatha umntwana Xa wahlukana nabazali bakhe, waba nesibindi ukuqalisa lo mzamo. I-inshorensi yezempilo yabantwana kunye neentsapho zabo Ubuncinci kwithuba elithile elinqabileyo lokungafihli, uMelania wavuma ukuba wayethatha inenekazi lokuqala “njengethuba elinye ebomini ……”Unokwakha uphawu lweshishini olunesiseko esibanzi. kwiindidi zeemveliso ezininzi, ngalinye linobudlelwane boshishino lwezigidi ngezigidi zeedola.” Usenokuba utshate nosapho lukaTrump, kodwa uyanyoluka kwaye uRhwaphilizo lunobuchule balo.
UMelania ibisoloko iyindima yakhe yokuzingca kobu mongameli onobundlobongela abamhlophe.Wathi wakhuthaza umyeni wakhe ukuba abaleke okokuqala.Ngokutsho kweengxelo, njengeqabane lakhe, uchitha ixesha elininzi kwiindaba ezihlekisayo, ekhangela amabali angathandekiyo ngomongameli, kwaye ekhalaza ngelithi “iqela lakhe lezonxibelelwano neendaba alenzanga ngokwaneleyo ukumthethelela.”Ngokweengxelo., UMelania (uMelania) unempembelelo enkulu ekuqeshweni nasekugxothweni kweNdlu ye-White House, kwaye ngokusisiseko wakhetha uMike Pence njengosekela-mongameli.
Waphuma yonke into kulo mbandela-ukwakhiwa kwakhe okumsulwa kunye nokumsulwa kwabafazi abamhlophe kuyingozi.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-29-2021