Ngokusho komyeni wakhe, uMelania "wayenengane eyihange" futhi wasebenzisa "ukufuduka kwamaketanga" ukuze athole ubuzwe baseMelika babazali bakhe.
Eminye yemininingwane eheha kakhulu yomyalelo wokuboshwa kwakamuva ukuthi uMelania Trump akazange athintwe ukungathembeki komyeni wakhe, noma angabi nandaba nokuhlukunyezwa kwakhe ngokocansi.“Nguye,” esho ngokunganaki."Ngiyazi ukuthi ngishade nobani."
UMelania ubelokhu ekubona kahle konke ngoDonald Trump-hhayi nje kuphela ukuzulazula kwakhe okulandelanayo, kodwa futhi nokunukubezwa kwakhe ngokocansi, amanga e-pathological, kanye nokucwasa okunonya-ukuze adalule ububi eminyakeni emine edlule.Isithombe se-FLOTUS sikhishwe amagciwane ngozakwabo.Naphezu kwabo bonke ubufakazi obuphambene nalokho, lokhu kusewukuhlanza, futhi kuzwela uMichelle Obama, obekezelela ukucwasa okunonya, okunobuthi nokucwasa ngokobulili.Nokho, ngisho noma uMelania ephikelela ebukhosini obunobudlova bokubusa kwabamhlophe, usafuna ukuba abhekwe njengomuntu olimele, ezibiza “ngomuntu oqinelwa kakhulu emhlabeni.”Iningi lesisulu elifunda sizifihle liwusizo kuye.Umlando wase-United States ugcwele ama-Melanias.Ukulunga kwalaba besifazane kuthathwa njengokumsulwa futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi, futhi kuvame ukuvikelwa ngodlame.
Nakuba i-FLOTUS ikuqinisekisile ukuthengiselana komshado, ukusayinwa komsebenzi wakhe wamanje akubangelwa nje iholo eliphezulu kangaka.Ephendula umbuzo wokuthi uzoshada noTrump noma cha ngo-2005, uphendule wathi: "Uma ngingemuhle, ucabanga ukuthi uzoba nami?"Ngokuphambene, njengoba incwadi yakamuva isho Njengoba kufakazelwa, uMelania akakaze abe yisibukeli esingenzi lutho, isisulu esingakwazi ukuzisiza noma umuntu owayezithulele mayelana ne-ajenda yomyeni wakhe (ubumsulwa buhlale bunikezwa abesifazane abamhlophe), kodwa ukuzibophezela okunothando nokuzimisela.Ngamanye amazwi, le FLOTUS akuyona nje inkosikazi yendondo noma isesekeli esihle;ungumhlanganyeli, uyasebenzisana, kanye nesisetshenziswa.
Ngokusobala, imfundo yakhe yezwi ngaphambi kokubeletha yamenza-umuntu ongowokufika ongowokuzalwa kwelinye izwe owayenesimo esingahambisani nokuthuthela kwelinye izwe futhi ngokusobala enesibindi esimhlophe esiphakeme-wacela ukufunda iphepha lika-Barack Obama.Waba nengxenye kule nkulumo-ze yobandlululo futhi eqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi wayeseneminyaka engaphezu kweshumi enza umsebenzi ongekho emthethweni e-United States, okwamenza waba isifiki esingenazo izincwadi zokuthi umyeni wakhe ayevame ukuhogela.I-thesis yakhe, noma ukuntuleka kwe-thesis, izofakazela ukuthi waqamba amanga iminyaka eminingi kamuva, ngoba wathweswa iziqu eNyuvesi yaseLjubljana eSlovenia futhi akazange ngisho aqede unyaka wakhe wokuqala.Kunalokho, usungule i-resume esezingeni eliphakathi, ngisho nekaDonald.Imali ayikwazi ukukwenza.Uzibandakanye nomsebenzi wokuba yi-supermodel, kodwa wamnikeza “ikhadi Le-Einstein Green” elingafaneleki, elivame ukunikwa “abantu abazuze udumo lwasekhaya nolwamazwe ngamazwe.”Ngokusho komyeni wakhe, wayene "anchor baby" ngo-2005. Ngo-2018, wathola ubuzwe babazali bakhe "ngokungena kwamanye amazwe";wasebenzisa indlela efanayo ukuze atholele udadewabo indawo yokuhlala unomphela.
Amanga kaMelania we-bohemian abonisa ukuthi umazi kahle umyeni wakhe ngoba bafana nabantu abazithandayo, abaziqinisayo basakaza amanga njalo lapho izindebe zabo zinyakaza.Nakuba uMelania ethi ukhuluma izilimi eziyisithupha, baningi abakhuluma izilimi zomdabu engoma yakhe ethi akakaze ezwe kuthiwa usebenzisa enye into ngaphandle kwesiNgisi noma isiSlovenia.Ngokwemibiko, ubuye waqamba amanga ngeminyaka yakhe nokuthi uhlinzwe ukuze abe yinhle.
Lapho umyeni wakhe ezishaya isifuba ngobugebengu bobulili efilimini i-Access Hollywood, wathi uDonald (ngaleso sikhathi owayeneminyaka engu-59) wayemane “enenkulumo yomfana.”Wathatha isimo esivamile sokusola isisulu.Bephendula inqwaba yabesifazane okuthiwa bahlukunyezwa ngokocansi, behlukunyezwa futhi beshaywa ngabayeni babo, basolwa ngokubuza ukuthi ngabe ukhona yini “owake wabheka imvelaphi yalaba besifazane?
Ku-MeToo, wasebenzisa inkundla ebanzi egameni likaBrett Kavanaugh ukutshela abasinde ekuhlukunyezweni ngokocansi ngokungaqondile: “Awukwazi ukuvele uthi komunye umuntu, 'Ngahlukunyezwa ngokocansi… Udinga ubufakazi obuqand' ikhanda.Ngemuva kokukhunjulwa, uNatasha Stoynoff, umbhali we-People's Magazine ngaleso sikhathi (uTrump wake wathi uTrump wamphusha odongeni futhi "waphusha ulimi lwakhe (emphinjeni)") wakhunjulwa, Ngemuva kokuhlangana okungekuhle nokujwayelekile noMelania eNew. York City, wabeka le ndaba njengehloselwe ukuba intombazane futhi wathi: “Angikaze ngibe umngane wakhe.Ngeke ngimazi.”Lapho intatheli engumJuda uJulia Ioffe iveza ukuthi uyise kaMelania wayenengane eyimfihlo, futhi egxekwa abantu abamelene namaSemite, uMelania wathi akanakho “ukulawula” abalandeli Bami, futhi u-Ioffe “uyabacasula.”
Wabe esebonakala ezifela ngoMichelle Obama, unkosikazi wokuqala omnyama wokuqala.Ngokwemibiko, uMelania ubengafuni ukusebenzisa izindlu zangasese namashawa afana no-Obama, kodwa wabe esemntshontsha ngendlela yokuthi lezi zinkulumo zibukeke zibukela phansi uhlelo uqobo lwabamhlophe.UMelania uhambisana nokuthambekela kwamasiko ezwe asezamukele, okuwukuntshontsha imibono, umsebenzi kanye namakhono abesifazane abamnyama ngokunyenya.Uqambe inhlangano yakhe emelene nenethiwekhi ngokuthi “indoda eyashada nenkosi enkulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni” “Be Best”, okuyinhlekisa, yenza umbhali waseNew Yorker uRebecca Mead aveze, “Ngisho nesiqubulo siwukuzama “ukuba ngcono” ohlelweni. inkundla yokudlala.Lokhu ukwamukela kukaMichelle Obama i-Austria.Isiqubulo u-Oprah Winfrey asidlulisela ezilalelini ezishisekayo ngesikhathi kuxoxwa naye.Ngisho nokuthi “Ingabe anginandaba ngempela?”Ngokwemibiko, ibhantshi liyindlela yokuthola izindaba futhi lingamsiza ukwedlula umanduleli wakhe.“Ingabe uMichelle Obama usefikile emngceleni?Akazange akwenze lokho.”“Ngibonise izithombe!”
kukhona okwengeziwe.Njengalapho u-Melania egqoke i-Out of Africa to Africa ehlome kakhulu, wayegqoke umakalabha kanye namabhuzu e-safari, okufakazela ukunaka kwakhe imininingwane yemfashini yamakholoni amhlophe.(“Kufana nokuhambela umhlangano wabalimi bakakotini base-Afrika-baseMelika ababamba iyunifomu yomfelandawonye,” kuphawula uMatthew Carotenuto, isazi-mlando e-St. Lawrence University. Indlela ayeseNew York ngayo ngaphambi kokuthuthela e-White House Wahlala edolobheni izinyanga eziyisithupha ukuze akwazi ukuphinde axoxisane ngokunakekelwa kwakhe ngaphambi komshado, aqongelele ama-US$676,000 ezindleko zendiza, nezindleko zokuphepha zansuku zonke phakathi kuka-US$127,000 no-US$146,000, konke okwakukhokhwa ngabakhokhi bentela.Lena indlovukazi yezenhlalakahle.Kukhona inhlekisa. kanye nenhlangano engasebenzi “engcono kakhulu”-i-Fyi, ekuqaleni eyantshontsha imibhalo ye-Federal Trade Commission yenkathi ka-Obama, kodwa uMelania wathi sawubona igama lakhe-lapho umyeni wakhe ethatha ingane Lapho ehlukana nabazali bakhe, waba nesibindi sokuqalisa lo mzamo. Umshwalense wezempilo wezingane kanye nemindeni yazo.Okungenani ngesikhathi esingavamile sokubeka izinto obala, uMelania wavuma ukuthi wayebheka unkosikazi wokuqala “njengethuba elivela kanye empilweni……”Ungakha uhlobo lwebhizinisi olunesisekelo esibanzi. ezigabeni eziningi zemikhiqizo, ngasinye sinobudlelwano bebhizinisi obubiza izigidi zamarandi.” Kungenzeka ukuthi washada nomndeni wakwaTrump, kodwa unomhobholo futhi Inkohlakalo inobuhlakani bayo.
UMelania bekulokhu kuyiqhaza lakhe lokuziqhenya kulobu mongameli onodlame omhlophe.Wathi ukhuthaze umyeni wakhe ukuba agijime okokuqala.Ngokwemibiko, njengomngane wakhe womshado, udla izindaba eziningi ezihlekisayo, efuna izindaba ezingajabulisi ngomongameli, futhi ekhononda ngokuthi “ithimba lakhe lezokuxhumana nezindaba alenzanga okwanele ukumvikela.”Ngokwemibiko., uMelania (Melania) unethonya elikhulu ekuqasheni nasekuxoshweni kwe-White House, futhi ngokuyisisekelo wakhetha uMike Pence njengephini likamongameli.
Waphuma konke ngale ndaba-ukwakhiwa kwakhe okumsulwa nokumsulwa kwabesifazane abamhlophe kuyingozi enkulu.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Jan-29-2021